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Kenny H's avatar

I am really saddened to hear about the miscarriage. While I have never experienced my wife having a miscarriage I know many people who have, and like most people, I have mourned the loss of what could have been.

Grief is complicated and we often mourn more than just what is kind of expected for us to morn. There are a lot of people dealing with grief that goes unsaid. Life is great and precious, but it also has a way of wearing us down as we age and the sadness compounds upon sadness.

The grief you are experiencing is real even though it wasn't you that lost the pregnancy. Doors close every time things like this happen and that's very sad. I want you to know that whatever grief you are feeling. It's okay to feel it, it's real and it hurts. I know you will find meaning going forward. If you want to message me or talk I am available.

As always thank you for your perspectives and worldview.

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David Swindle 🟦's avatar

Thank you, Kenny. I appreciate that. I’ve been needing more friends to talk this through with. I’ll reach out. Looking forward to getting more of your perspective on this.

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Jason Louv's avatar

Very sorry to hear about this David. Keep your chin up

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David Swindle 🟦's avatar

Thanks man, I really appreciate it. It's really hard to keep the chin up because the bullshit that's been spewed at me is about up that high on me right now. The fumes are making me woozy.

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